This Valentines Day, Let Yourself be Loved

When you don't feel great about yourself, and don't have a strong foundation of self love, the whole idea of other people loving you can be pretty foreign and even downright frightening. When all you see is negative, it is hard to imaging anyone else seeing you as positive and beautiful and amazing. Because of this, Valentines day can be a hard and triggering day.

This year though, it doesn't have to be.

Even if you are struggling to love yourself tomorrow, that does not mean that you are not loved. Even though you cannot see it, that does not mean that all of the people in your life who love you do not see you to be beautiful, talented, kind, smart, and lovely. Trust me, the people in your life who love you think that you are all of these things and many more. 

So tomorrow, let  yourself go for a little while. Let all of the expectations of self-doubt and self-hatred fall away. instead, fall into the people who love you, and try to trust them when they show you just how absolutely amazing you are. Because even though you cant see it, it is so true.

Valentines Day and every other day, you are so lovely, and so so loved.

Thanks for reading and have a great day tomorrow.